(24F) I aspire to be a kind and caring female friend

As a female friend, I notice a lot of close guy friends are told by society to keep quiet and “man up” no matter the challenges or difficulties they might be facing in day to day life. If he’s stressed, depressed, or struggling emotionally after a break-up, the implication is that he has to deal with the problem on his own and not let down his guard, lest it be taken as a sign of weakness. I understand it from an evolutionary perspective. Being strong is ideal as a male. But in the 21st century, I feel a lot of heavy emotional burdens shouldn’t be kept to oneself. I am not talking about ranting about it on social media; but having a close, intimate, caring friend who lends her ear and time is a beautiful sign of friendship and intimacy.

So why can’t a guys female friends be there for him? Providing him with the comfort of emotional support, a friend to open up with, or a casual no strings sexual partner to let him vent his needs and desires on?

I dream of being a close, supportive figure who a guy can turn to in his moment of need. To open up about his depression, and to admit his fears and insecurities.

It’s really intimate to imagine two friends of the opposite sex hanging out after a long day at one or the other’s apartment. It would be wonderfully beautiful if during their intimate evening, he could openly and honestly ask for help unwinding sexually; and she would oblige him since he does so much for her and it is the least that she could do to help him. It could be something as simple and intimate as a slow sensual blowjob that helps him forget about his day… Or maybe he needs something more rough and intense, a deepthroat or throatfuck with gagging, tears, and mess, that will help him take out his pent up frustrations on an eager and willing mouth that really just wants to help him…

I think it’s particularly sexy to imagine a close friendship that mirrors a type of close relationship that that becomes something intimate and sexual where the girl shows her gratitude and appreciation for all the times the guy has been there for her by going down on him… Looking up to him and wanting to show him her appreciation for being her guardian angel through life.