I (28M) went way too far on a first date with a girl (27F) I matched with on Hinge

I have to preface this story that it is completely nonfiction and happened last weekend.

To start, I will say that I am a guy that has been relatively successful on dating apps. I typically don’t have any issues securing dates every weekend.

So two weeks ago, I matched with a girl. We really didn’t send many messages back and forth, but it was clear we just wanted to get drinks (I prefer this over texting any day). So, she gives me her number, I text her late last week the logistics in the city, and we meet up.

We both order a glass of wine and start having a good, bantering conversation. Vibes are nice, the bartender is chatting with us and the bar isn’t too busy. When I start to get wine drunk, I get handsy. We’re laughing, having a good time and I put my hand on her thigh, then pull it back. She gives me “that” look. Few minutes go by, and I do it again, this time rubbing her inner thigh — she looks at me again. This time, I leave my hand there. We order another glass of wine and we continue drinking.

My hand is on her inner thigh, and eventually she puts her hand over my hand. Yep, we’re moving in the right direction. The bar closed at 10pm, so I wrapped the tab up and we left.

We exit the bar and I asked her, “do you want to go to another bar?” — she replied “sure!”. We go to another bar and order another round of drinks. I’m leaning up against the bar, talking with her she rubs up against me. I put my hands on her ass and pull her close while she’s talking to me. She kisses my neck very lightly — oof. Things are going.

We enjoy our time at that bar, and hop to another bar. This time, we’re at the back of the bar and she is pretty drunk. I was done since I had to drive, but she kept drinking. Now we were sitting at a bench next to each other with her heard on my shoulder. She slips her hand under my shirt and starts rubbing my nice chest. I told her “finish your drink. We need to go” (at this point id been hard for about 2 hours).

We walk to my car and we drive back to my place. Immediately, I push her up against the wall and begin making out and pushing my tongue into hers. She moans, with her nipples clearly piercing through her shirt. She rips my shirt off, and I do the same to her. The feeling of our bare skin against each other was so hot, especially building up to the moment.

I lay her down on my couch and continue making out with her, slowly making my way down to her nipples. She moans when I take her nipple into my mouth and flick it with my tongue. Eventually, I sit down and she straddles me and I continue sucking her nipples. I couldn’t take it anymore. I needed her in my bed. So, I carry her there.

This is where things start going going. I lay her down, strip her clothes off and start rubbing her vulva slowly while kissing her neck. “Fuck”, she moans. I rub up and down, slowly inserting and resting my finger in her vagina. I begin fingering her — holy shit she is so wet. I slip another finger in, she moans loudly. I start picking up the pace.

While I’m fingering her, my ring finger is pressing against her ass. She whispers “put a finger in my ass”. Honestly, I had never done this before — but I was so down to try. So, I begin slowly massaging her asshole while fingering her. She moans loudly “oh my god, that feels so fucking good”. I take the tip of my finger and slowly slip it in while fingering her. “Ohhh my god that’s so hot”, she moans. She then asks “do you have any lube?” — I did. So, I put lube on my ring finger and on her asshole.

Now, her asshole is completely accepting my finger. She takes my whole finger while my pointer and middle finger go at her pussy. She grabs me by the throat and says “I want you to fuck my ass”. Uhhhh — first date anal is absolutely crazy, and I had never done it before. But you know what? Fuck it. Let’s do it. I want to feel how an asshole grips my cock.

So, I lube my cock up. To be honest, I’m kind of nervous. I have no clue what to expect. She arches her back, and I position my lubed cock on the entrance of her asshole. I slowly push in, and I slide in. Holy. Fuck. — the first sphincter opens and grabs my cock. I almost wanted to bust immediately. That sensation was absolutely otherworldly.

She takes my cock, and I just rest it there. No pumping, just a realization that I am balls deep inside this girl’s ass that I had just met 4 hours ago. So insanely hot. I begin pumping, grabbing her hair while I fuck her ass. It did not take long, until I felt my balls tighten all the way and unleash an extreme load of cum into her asshole. She moans, taking every single drop. Oh my god, even removing my cock was semi-painful due to how sensitive it was.

I collapse in pleasure. She smiles at me and says my turn.

She straddles my face, and I eat her out. A bit of my cum from her ass dripped down into my beard, adding more to her already wet pussy. I lick her vagina up, down, slowly sucking on her clit until her thighs wrap around my face in euphoria. She collapses next to me. She says “that’s the hottest thing I’ve ever done on a fist date”. I agree — easily the craziest first date I’ve had in my life.

What an absolutely wild first date.