Blowjob – A guide for beginners

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A blowjob, how do you do it? Which part of the cock is the most sensitive? And what do you do with the cum? swallow? Towel? A guide for beginners.

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First get to know the cock well. Look at it. Take the cock in your hand, feel the cock harden in your hand. The cock begins with the shaft, at the very top is the glans, with an opening at the top through which the cum comes out. Where the shaft passes into the glans there is the most sensitive part of the cock, focus on that area when giving a blowjob. Where the foreskin connects to the glans.

It is a misunderstanding that you can make a cock cum by going up and down the shaft, as you see in porn videos. It is of course possible, but that is because the glans is stimulated deeper in your mouth or throat. But how? It is mainly a matter of trying out, seeing what your partner likes best and what you like to do yourself. Usually, when both like it, magic happens.

Practice

Sit between his legs, then you will have the most favourable position. By approaching the cock from below, you can reach the most sensitive spots. Take the cock in one hand, the balls in the other. Caress the cock and tickle a little around the balls. Then take the top of the cock in your mouth. Move your tongue gently along and pay close attention to how he reacts, so you quickly discover what he likes best. You can feel it when an orgasm is coming. Just before he cums the glans swells slightly, and a few drops of clear liquid come out. When he can no longer keep his hips still and starts to make light shaking movements, he is close to release his cum in your mouth.

Techniques and tips

Once you’ve mastered the basics, you can move on to refining your blowjob technics. This is also very personal; what one person likes, the other doesn’t like it at all. Here are some technics I like and always works.

Spinning around in your mouth

Take the erect cock in your mouth, but don’t put your lips around it. Slowly rotate your head in circles, the cock is then rotated in your mouth, past your cheeks and tongue. With this technique, some men can delay cumming for a very long time because it is an indirect stimulation. It is therefore the ultimate pleasure for many men. Also recommended if he often comes (too) quickly.

Lollipop technique

Lick from the balls up the cock as if it were a lollipop or ice cream. Pay extra attention to the glans when licking, you can also spit on it first, make the cock really wet.

Deepthroat

Take the cock deep into your mouth, until the head of the cock is near your uvula. You can stimulate the glans by moving your head. The trick is not to gag. It’s a natural response to gag when you feel something in the back of your throat. The moment you feel that you are going to gag, you have to consciously start swallowing, so that the reflex disappears. You repeat that over and over again, the reflex becomes less over time. Another problem with this technique is the curve the cock and the size as it has to go all the way down your throat. First, make sure the cock is as far back in your mouth as possible by making your mouth and throat form a straight line. If you tilt your head slightly back, a more or less straight line is created and your throat will grant access to his cock. Second, you let him slide in and until its all the way in and then let him fuck your throat. It is normal to drool a lot and men like it if you make choking noises, makes them feel dominant.

Popular technique

The most popular blowjob technique is the standard blow. You slide the cock into your mouth past your lips. Grab the shaft with your hand, or if needed two, when he has a huge cock. Your hands give a warm feeling all along the cock, while only a small piece is actually in your mouth. Now you can move your head or move your tongue along the glans and with your hand/hands you jerk him off. Make sure the entire cock remains covered with your hand/hands or your mouth.

Prolonged and intense orgasm

When he is about to come, place your thumb on the base of the cock so that you block the tube where the cum comes through. Press with the flat side of your thumb just behind the balls. In the meantime, keep on sucking. Then he cums, despite the fact that there is no cum. Hold the suction for a few moments more, and then release and let the cum come. This is guaranteed to deliver an intense orgasm.

What to do with the cum?

Do you swallow it or do you spit it out? Not everyone likes swallowing cum. If you don’t like the taste of cum, you can choose to swallow it right at the back of your throat. Then you taste almost nothing. You then have to apply the deep throat technique where you stimulate the head all the way in the back of your mouth. if you do like it, you can let him cum in your mouth, play a bit with the cum in your mouth and then swallow it. Or, let it drip a bit out of your mouth on your boobs for example, this can really be a turn on for both.

Ok, if you really don’t like cum in your mouth, you can also use a flavoured condom. They are available at every drugstore, in different flavours. Many men complain that they feel less with a condom and prefer to get a blow job without. But if the idea of cum in your mouth really makes you gag, you better give him the choice, either a blow with a condom, or just before he cums you stop sucking and you make him cum with your hands.

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